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- Rebecca Vijay, an online entrepreneur, faces isolation and challenges due to time zone differences.
- She works in publishing through the night and sleeps during the day while her family is away.
- Global connections through coaching groups have helped her overcome isolation and find support.
I’m an online business owner who provides book writing and publishing services. My focus is on women’s empowerment through faith, entrepreneurship, and financial literacy.
As a child growing up in New Delhi, every day was an adventure with friends and weekends were busy with church, youth events, and programs. Coming from a carefree youth setting to stepping into the workforce and adjusting to a 9-5 schedule took some time.
Now, as I run my business from home alone, I feel even more isolated.
I worked a few corporate jobs before starting my business
After working in different organizations at the start of my career, I settled at Oxford University Press for almost eight years, heading a commissioning team that published management books.
I got married in 2008, found we were expecting twins, and lost my firstborn twin son on the third day of his life. I raised my preemie daughter with my husband’s support.
Infant loss can be a taboo subject, and most people around me chose to ignore it. Stifling my thoughts and emotions forced me into my shell.
I had another son, and when he was a few months old and my daughter was in kindergarten, I decided that money can always be made but spending time with my kids during their formative years was more important. I left corporate life in 2014. Not many people in my life understood this decision.
I became an author and struggled to feel understood by my community even further
I started blogging, and in 2017, I wrote my first book, “My Angel in Heaven,” about my son’s death and finding comfort in God, which helped many bereaved parents and became a bestseller on Amazon.
Though people around me congratulated me, I didn’t feel like they understood what it took out of me to bring the book to life. I went on to have two more books published that year, and the response was the same, as they hit bestseller lists, too. It made me feel even more disconnected from the people around me.
I then faced new challenges when I became an online entrepreneur
I started my company, Fount of Grace Creatives, in 2018, providing publishing services to local authors and expanded it into an international publishing house in 2021.
I created a concept for an anthology featuring inspiring stories of global women changemakers, trailblazers, and visionaries. Arranging coaching or networking calls is difficult; when for some, it’s midnight, for others, it’s early morning.
As I work mostly with US clients now, I tend to work during the evenings, leading to late nights. Sometimes, I’m even up until 4 a.m. or 5 a.m. or maybe not sleeping at all, as I need to be up by 6 a.m. to get my kids up for school.
Once my kids and my husband are out for their day, I try to get a few hours of sleep. It’s extremely difficult as our maid will come, trash will need to be picked up, some courier will come, etc.
I generally put my phone on silent as otherwise it will keep ringing and disturb my irregular sleep. On top of that, I get migraines, which get triggered by lack of or interrupted sleep.
It’s difficult for friends, family, and acquaintances to understand my schedule
My husband works in logistics and others around me are mostly in IT, teaching, HR, finance, banking, or ministry.
For them, I’m at home and need to be available whenever they call or message. Some feel that the online world where I work is not a “real” job and don’t seek to understand it. They also don’t understand why I’ve invested in mentors, online programs, and courses.
I work on business development, sales and marketing, social media, and fulfillment. This is very different from more traditional jobs, and I’m all the more isolated as I can’t share about my work or what it entails.
The pandemic came and made everything worse
We were imprisoned within our own four walls. I lost my mom and some close friends.
Before I could even make sense of that, cancer stole two of my favorite and most inspiring authors whose stories I published.
All this left me spinning out of control and alone.
I started to make friends online
I’ve connected with others through global coaching groups to learn strategy and skills for my business. These women have helped me break boundaries in my mind and figure out how to cater to international audiences and charge in USD, as they’ve had to break their own barriers and obstacles to gain success.
These women have become friends and helped me feel less alone. We have similar struggles, share our success stories or tips, and speak the same jargon.
Investing in myself, following through on my vision even when others didn’t understand or see it, and focusing on my mission have helped me develop these deeper virtual personal relationships.
The struggles are worth it
Life as an online entrepreneur from a different time zone than most of my clients has been difficult and lonely, but when I look back at the lives I’ve touched through publishing their inspiring stories, the sacrifices have been worth it.
I plan to go on to train corporations and educational institutes in personal development and women’s leadership and continue to encourage my kids and women across the world to dream big, not be limited to a 9-5 job, and consider working online as a way to gain time and financial freedom.
Do you have an isolating job and want to share your story? Email Lauryn Haas at [email protected]
